13 Responses

  1. Amanda
    Amanda January 4, 2010 at 9:54 am | | Reply

    Honestly, I don’t think I’d destroy them, but it wouldn’t be for the money aspect. If the person was famous in a way that their work and their life makes a contribution, I would want to help add to that. It’s like how Nabokov’s last novel has finally been published, even though it wasn’t finished – he wanted it destroyed, but after 30+ years, his son just couldn’t destroy it. And I’m glad he didn’t, because anything that helps me get to know Nabokov better is something I want access to. I wish a bunch of Plath’s diaries weren’t destroyed. Or Jane Austen’s stuff. Not for money purposes, but for historical significance.

    I guess leaving stuff with me to destroy would be a bad idea if that’s what you really wanted…

  2. JaneGS
    JaneGS January 4, 2010 at 1:53 pm | | Reply

    Hmmm, interesting story. I love moral dilemma stories because they’re so interesting.

    With regards to your question, all I can think of is “do unto others…”

    With regards to celebrity, external validation is a cruel mistress.

    Enjoyed your post–looking forward to this tour very much.

  3. Rebecca Reid
    Rebecca Reid January 4, 2010 at 2:57 pm | | Reply

    Amanda, I’m with you on finding it fascinating to see authors. I’m not sure what I’d do (really depends on the specifics) but I am with you on that. Besides, if I’m not dead, it’s not like I’d need it anymore….

    JaneGS, yes, very interesting to see how “celebrity” status these days is created by who knows whom. Not always a good thing. I’m torn on the sharing private things — like Amanda says, an item like a journal might have important historical value. At any rate, yes, the story had a very interesting moral dilemma, just not as strong as the other Wharton’s I’ve read.

  4. Jason Gignac
    Jason Gignac January 4, 2010 at 4:30 pm | | Reply

    Hrm… maybe I need to leave my papers with someone else when I die, Amanda… ;)

    I would find it difficult to judge someone in the situation. There are so many things that interact with our actions toward the dead…

  5. Vasilly
    Vasilly January 4, 2010 at 7:35 pm | | Reply

    Now I really want to read this! This is the perfect question to be asking right now in the world we’re living in. I would definitely destroy the letters. That person gave me their possessions because they trusted me. That trust is a brave thing to have. I think it takes a lot to trust a person enough to give them your secrets. . .

  6. Jenny
    Jenny January 4, 2010 at 10:15 pm | | Reply

    I completely agree with Amanda – when something’s of historical or literary significance, I absolutely shudder to hear of its being destroyed, Plath’s diaries being a good example. James Joyce’s grandson is always threatening to destroy Joyce’s letters and things. I’ve always thought that upon my death, I’d leave them to a university library with the provision that they not be opened up until a given date way in the future. To me, that’s the least harmful way of preserving significant documents that an author wished to have destroyed. (Stupid Ted Hughes, he could have easily done that with Sylvia Plath’s diaries. Grrrr.)

  7. Petunia
    Petunia January 5, 2010 at 2:08 am | | Reply

    Wharton is the queen of the moral dillemma. I just love her so much. I haven’t read this one yet. I can’t wait to read and review Summer at the end of the month for the Classics Curcuit.

    I’m with Amanda on this one. Sit on it until some time has passed. If it’s of historical interest later on then take it where it can receive the respect it deserves.

  8. Jackie (Farm Lane Books)
    Jackie (Farm Lane Books) January 5, 2010 at 7:23 am | | Reply

    I think the key words in your question are “don’t care about very much” If it was someone I loved then I’d destroy them, but if I didn’t care about them then I’d go for the money!

  9. Chris@bookarama
    Chris@bookarama January 5, 2010 at 8:33 pm | | Reply

    Wow, what a question! I’m with Jackie on this one. (Good catch Jackie)

    I’m loving my Wharton pick. She was an amazing writer.

  10. Valerie
    Valerie January 5, 2010 at 9:44 pm | | Reply

    This is one of Wharton’s I still haven’t read. I’m looking forward to participating in the circuit later this month!

    I would destroy them, regardless of how I felt about that person. I’m a huge respecter of privacy and secrets.

  11. Karenlibrarian
    Karenlibrarian January 5, 2010 at 11:29 pm | | Reply

    That’s a tough choice, but I don’t think most people today would think twice about it — they’d go for the money. (And with the economic climate, I don’t know if I’d blame them). I do wish there were more of Jane Austen’s letters — her sister destroyed most of them, and now all that history is lost forever.

    This sounds like an interesting book. I am so enjoying the Wharton tour!

  12. Rebecca Reid
    Rebecca Reid January 6, 2010 at 4:11 pm | | Reply

    Jason, I think that’s how I think too, but my opinion keeps changing…

    Vasilly, good point!

    Jenny, also a good point. I haven’t read Sylvia Plath yet, but it sounds like most Plath readers are very sad about that…

    Petunia, It’s interesting because I just don’t consider the moral dilemmas she comes up with!!

    Jackie, I think this an important aspect of the hypothetical:)

    Christina, I’m glad you’re enjoying your book too!

    Valerie, I’m torn! But that’s awesome that you have no hesitation.

    Karen, I know, in this day and age, even best friends do that!

  13. Jodie
    Jodie January 8, 2010 at 11:01 am | | Reply

    If we don’t have all the historical facts provided by things like personal correspondence we may make assumptions based on other things that are even less flattering to the person so I think either way there’s a negative and a positive (ah life). Loving my pick for this tour by the way, but as mine was finished by her biographer after Wharton’s death I feel it may be more happy endingy than her other books.

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